I must be doing something right
Here are the two largest mail servers I manage. They handle over 20K users, with full mail service.
[root@nmail ~]# uptime 11:02:29 up 217 days, 3:09, 3 users, load average: 1.54, 5.79, 7.40 [root@correo1 ~]# uptime 11:02:25 up 227 days, 21:58, 1 user, load average: 6.78, 4.61, 3.90
Ok, the load is a little high, but I know the reason and it's not a big problem.